Positive Thoughts - The Cinema Inside Your Head

"The world is what you think it is." - Serge Kahili King

Humor me for a moment and just imagine that you're in a cinema. Everything around you is dark apart from the screen that's showing the latest blockbuster suspense thriller. You're sat there wide-eyed, holding a piece of popcorn in front of your open mouth as if it's frozen in time. It's just getting to the really juicy bit - the girl is being followed, but by who? And what will be her fate when they catch her? She trips! The chilling music gets faster and louder; the camera zooms right in on the action. You hold your breath; your heart beats faster; you push back into your seat; the anticipation is almost too much to bear.....

And then all of a sudden, for no apparent reason, the music changes to the Benny Hill theme tune! The colour gets really bright and vivid, and the film speeds up to double time so that the characters start to move in a kind of comical fashion. Now, as you look up at that screen, no matter how hard you try, it's impossible to continue the feeling of fear or anxiety about what is unfolding in front of you. It just seems ridiculous.

I've used this kind of cinematic example many times before with my clients and workshop attendees, because it's a perfect metaphor for understanding how our experience of life is created purely through the projection of our thoughts. Now, replace the movie of the girl being followed with that other movie of how everyone will laugh at you if you fail. Or how about the one where you know you'd be rubbish at a particular task so it's not worth even attempting it? Or the one about your boss firing you; or the one about how someone might somehow expose you as being a fraud; or how your parents never take you seriously; or what ever movie you like to run on a regular basis.

Notice how compelling and realistic you make it, and as you replay the scene over and over, pay attention to how you begin to feel in response.

But it's just a movie; a thought.

If you knew that you were the Director of that movie what direction would you want to take it to make it more enjoyable to watch? Horror movies are great for entertainment, but when they are about your own life, that's another story. Wouldn't you rather be watching a 'feel good' classic?

One of the best explanations I've discovered for simplifying the whole subject of how our thoughts create our realities comes from the success coach, Michael Neill. He describes that there are three vital ingredients that must exist in order for us create a life-like experience of the world around us. They are Energy, Consciousness and Thought.

To understand the part that these three elements play let's go back to that cinema, only this time I'll meet you up in the projection booth. This is where the magic happens.

Consciousness is like the projector itself. It sheds lights onto whatever happens to be in front of it at the time, in this case a reel of film, and the result is the image that you see on the screen. It only ever shines the right amount of light to illuminate the area of that screen with everything remaining in darkness. To put it another way, if it's not lit up, it's unconscious.

Of course, nothing could be projected if the projector is not plugged in because it needs electricity. You provide the energy to your consciousness by simply being alive. Some would regard this energy as being your life-force, your essence, your soul or your spirit. You're plugged in!!

Thought is the reel of film itself. We each have thousands of thoughts every day, most of which glide by harmlessly in the background of our awareness, but some make it to the front of the projector. They get illuminated and magnified larger than life onto that big screen, complete with panoramic and Technicolor qualities and dramatic score and sound effects. Before long you are gripped by the emotional impact of the coercive measure, true on-the-edge-of-your-seat stuff.

But here's the thing. What happens if you do not like the movie? There is not much to go to the screen and try to change it from there. Do not cry, no matter how frustrated with the characters or the plot to change the ending, already decided. The world does not care what the thoughts you project the same way that the screen no matter what images will be thrown on them.

The onlyway to swap this movie for a better one - say a comedy or a romance or one where the good guy always wins - is to realise that that up there in the projection booth is a library of film to suit any taste. All you need to do is go up there, select the one you'd like to watch and put it in front of your projector.

When you own the cinema, you get to choose the movie, and the quality of the movie you choose determines the quality of your life. So wouldn't it be a good idea to start getting really picky about what you see?

Homework:

Being a movie critic this week. Plan to check in with yourself, at least a couple of times a day and check the type of movie you do in your head. This is what you pay good money to see, or would that would have won "worst film" The Raspberry Awards. If he had more "boo-hiss" as "Bravo", change for the better. It's so easy!

You might want to take a step back and decide that the main role in the comedymost wonderful adaptation of your life.

Have an amazing week.

Namaste,

Paul

A Few Helpful Thoughts on Memorial Ideas

There have been some pretty bad monument or memorial ideas that I have seen over the last few years. Having said that, I have also seen and been inspired by some really wonderful memorial ideas. Ask yourself these questions: What then makes the difference? Is it "my" personal preference that gets in the way or are some of these ideas really bad for a reason? Also, are the good memorial ideas really good for a specific reason?

In this article, I am going to address and answer these questions by what I will use as something I call the "template for success" with regards to finding and executing the absolute best in memorial ideas.

This guide to success was composed by asking a hand-full of unique questions to all kinds of people, including: partners, friends and (especially) clients. I am confident that as you read these questions that you will find them somewhat logical, if not obvious. Whatever we do in life as human beings, there always exists a natural tendency to want answers quickly. Consider these tendencies as you discuss these questions and search for well determined answers.

First question (1): what is the purpose of the memorial? Monuments and memorials can serve a whole spectrum of purposes. The key in answering these questions is to figure out and determine what the purpose of your memorial will be. Is it educational, motivational or purely functional? Is the purpose something else? I would suggest that you spend some good time thinking through and discussing as to what the answer to this question might be for you or your committee.

The next or second question, part of the template of success with regards to memorial ideas is: What emotion or emotions are you wishing to capture? Now, this can be a challenging question as human emotions are difficult to define. But, the more time you spend discussing this specific question with your organization, the more effective or even better said, the more powerful the reactions to The monument is his idea of coming seasons.

Last question. Ask yourself: what is the target monument? Some find that this issue should be resolved much easier. Be sure to consider the following in the search to see what the memorial will be public: it is your target audience consists of people aged above or below? Are women or men? Make sure you have this right.

Whatever you do in life, and every time you make your ideas,make sure to keep the end goal in mind. These questions and answers given to you above, can help you determine and carry out good memorial ideas.